Reason

We always keep searching for a reason to everything that happens in life. Why did this happen to me? I have asked myself this question numerous times & it has only made me miserable. One day, I just stopped seeing reason in everything that happens. I even don’t want to believe when people say, “Everything happens for a reason”. Shit happens! You either start searching for reasons why it happened or buck up & deal with it.

I was in the reasoning phase when I was going through the worst nightmare of my life. One day, I just looked back & realised, all I need to do is take a decision that makes me happy. I did just that & there was a sudden gush of relief. I started smiling & laughing again. Those were the things I thought I’d never get back. Finally the cloud of reason cleared & I saw things for the way they are.

There will be happy moments & there will be sad moments. But I don’t want to find out why they happen anymore. Just live life as it comes, maybe with a little planning (the Virgo in me cannot sleep otherwise).